Color doesn't matter! I'm Colored blind! Can't we all just get along!
After listening to the podcast i decided to just take myself completely out the equation and look at it as if it was my personal life that was on the podcast. I have to say one thing. She states there are some people who actually get turned on by getting called Negro and getting whipped by white people (Race Play). She also asked the question how can you get turned on by being "DEGRADING". Wait a minuet stop right here. Even though I agree with her ideology on this being luticrise as a black women myself. I don't think its fair for her to talk about labels while putting labels on someone else. For instance the women that does like to play these plantation scenarios in BDSM they don't think its DEGRADING. so who makes us the JUDGE to say what is and whats not. I feel that we should allow people to have their own definition to their own vocabulary. Your DEGRADING might be my EROTIC and so forth. Just cause I ain't down with it doesn't mean i can say its wrong. Also just cause I know how the world will look at it, and it will be utterly wrong doesn't make me the person to say that. For example of my last comment. By being a black women and to have a white person to whip you, play plantation, and call you a Negro; and you get sexually arouse from that, then you crazy. How can you get arouse from something that your ancestors DIED over literally. Your bloodlines blood was shared , and raped. Thats how the world looks at it. Thats not fair. If that's some people thing thats some people thing. How about this. Maybe they are huge history geeks who love acting out history. HUh- huh.. what about that.
Again i am just playing devil advocate. I disagree with the whole bullshit. But To me i believe its bullshit. Should it not happen. I cant say. I believe people should do what makes them happy. On the other hand you shouldnt allow people to put labels on you and being called a Negro or, field slave is a label. By you playing suit your not spiritually growing.