I am a huge advocate for not allowing yourself to REMAIN a victim. We are all victims of something at one point in our lifes. The real goal is " how not to allow ourselves to remain a victim" or " how not to allow ourselves to follow the label the world gives us as victims". Let me break it down like this. Anybody can recieve an A, but can you keep that A is the ultimate question. Knowing who are is essential in our day of time. The world is full with invisible sticky notes that are filled with adjectives that are waitng to find a home. When are we going to stand up as a union and say enough is enough. Who is to say what weight determines the fat ratios eligibility. Who did we put incharge to tell us what is thin and what is fat. I do not know about you but i never even knew the polls where closed for voting. WE allow ourselves to allow people to put labels on our own selfves. Why can we be people. I can tell you why. We are to mass of a human race to look at us all as equal. If we can group everybody and put a label on the subgroups from the groups we then have mass control over the entire race. Now i know your probably asking by now where the hell does vulnerability falls into all of this( hints the title). Well before i give you that i have to give to give you this; "realization is the biggest key in life" Without realiztion, vulnerability does not exist or co-exist in anything man made. Once we as a people relizes that we are the HEAD MUNCHOS, that we are THE BOSSES, that we are the HBIC's ( head bitch in charge). People will only do what you allow them to do. After relaizing this we can begin pulling off the layers of frobided desires or goals that we had burried. We can now be free. We can now and finally now be intimate with ourselves. Yes I said intimate. I dont mean sex. My definition of intimacy is: In-to-me-I-see. To me vulnerability = intimacy. Being intimate is the core essence in saying I am who I say I am, and I will be who I am meant to be. So no you are not fat and you shouldnt allow the world to call you a name that you didnt give them permision to call you. No you are not a slot and dont allow the world to call you a slut if you did not give them permission to call you that. Being intimate and vulnerable with yourself is knowing who you are and who's you are and knowing every inch or your erotic power that you have intially earned and showing it. So in that case Eff the world. To show you im not biasis I will become vulnerable with myself. I am a women who is engaged to another Women. NO. I am not a lesbian. Other women do not arouse me. I am a being who gender is female, who is in love with another spiritual being as myself in gender! And I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT